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  1. This is something I worry about... I grew up with very little, but to my parents credit never really realized how little that was. We always had enough. My husband's family grew up with more and we're raising our son with the "more" as well. Watching my husband's parents travel and buy the things they need in their retirement without a financial burden is educational to watch. I'm very much hoping that the saving I do now will help alleviate the worry of spending later. My maternal grandmother is still kicking at 95 relatively independently and my paternal grandmother was in her early 90s when she passed. Her oldest daughter just passed away at 93 but she had dementia at the end. If I retire at 67, I might need a savings to last 30 years.
  2. choosing a 403b plan

    Last year, I started the transfer from my 403b with AXA to Security Benfit's NEA Direct Invest. It took longer than expected because AXA was very precise in its requirements to leave and my "advisor" wasn't very helpful. Juggling AXA, my state's TPA, SB, and getting all the paperwork lined up between the 3 companies was frustrating. I think reading up on the boglehead's three fund portfolio helped me feel more comfortable self-directing, along with being able to ask questions here. Being able to access my account online with SB and check its progress is neat, and it is a pretty user-friendly interface. I used to check everyday, but now I just check the ticker tape to see if the index is up or down. I'm trusting in compounding interest and the fact that the market will inevitably go up over time. Currently, my portfolio is down, but I'm also mimicking the vanguard target retirement fund for when I want to retire and its asset allocation is very aggressive right now. I just take a deep breath and leave the mix alone. I will probably check about rebalancing over the summer. I also had aspire as an option, and thought about making a 3 fund portfolio with them, but the cost difference over time swayed me. I have a lot of years to go before I'm retirement age and I already wasted too much in fees with AXA. Aspire was very quick to respond to questions and seemed very user-friendly, too.
  3. Q1 YTD Return

    Hah... I'm so new to portfolio watching. It has been crazy to watch it go up and down and up and down. Right now it is down. It was easier to watch it go up and down when the account balance was smaller.
  4. So scary. I read about WV teacher strike and I compare it to what Hawaii teachers went through when my mother began teaching in the 70s. I can't believe that it's illegal for teachers to strike there.... but it also blows my mind that they still come out ahead of Hawaii when you look at cost-of-living adjustments. Apparently, Hawaii and AZ are trading places for last in the nation. My mom is turning 70 this year and still has a mortgage because my folks didn't purchase a house till all us kids were over 18. My dad has passed. She's got a pension, SS, and cares for my youngest brother who is mentally disabled and gets SSDI. He'll come to me when my mom passes.... women in her line are long-lived (her mom is still living independently at 93), but she's started feeling her age and recently hurt her back and got PT. She occasionally talks about taking up substitute teaching to supplement her income, but keeps mislaying paperwork, so I don't think she's very serious about it. I know I'm paying into Social Security, I'll have a pension (though HI's is underfunded), and I'm slowly building up my 403b & 457... next step would be pad the emergency fund out to 6 months and to fund an IRA. My husband half-jokes about working till he drops dead. His parents seem to have a comfortable retirement and frequently travel and dine out. His mother has a filing cabinent full of receipts and accounting. She's very organized. The difference between our folks is striking... and comparing to us, well. I'm learning and I'm glad I'm getting a handle on it now, even if it is a little late, at least I'm not so close to retirement age that it's panic time. I do think that once our son graduates, I"ll probably take up a part-time retail or restaurant job, something in the el/hospitality industry to help supplement savings.
  5. Teaching Loved Ones About Money

    I was scared enough about winding up with no money for college that I became a saver. I got my first p/t job at 15 and squirreled away my money. I knew what the tuition at the local community college was and had a rough idea about the cost of books. I had compared the costs for loans to live away from home vs. living at home for the first couple years and chose to stay. My grades were good, but not the best in high school, and my parents "made too much" to get pell grants (on a teacher and line cooks salary, imagine that). My parents let me live at home, eat their food, and drive their car (I paid for gas and upkeep). I worked full time during summers and part-time through the school year to pay for my school, books, clothes, computer, cell phone/plan, travel.. and once I transferred to the main university, I paid for housing, meal plan, flight. Once I got my BA, I paid a small rent as I went on to get my teaching credentials. I know it helped my parents out and I was happy to contribute. I can't even imagine how amazing it would have been to get a small bit of that back. He is super lucky you care about his financial health. Here's another link for folks with kids for help and discussion : https://www.consumerfinance.gov/consumer-tools/money-as-you-grow/
  6. 403b Annuity Salesman Perspective

    Hawaii is having its Teacher Institute days cross the state this week. At our break out sessions, there was a pre-retirement workshop with folks from our retirement system to overview the how the state coordinates retirement; the NEA guys were running a "financial wellness" one that was to cover money mangement, debt control, credit scores and reports, identity theft, retirement planning, and discussion on types and features of different 403b; and the AXA guy was running his own separate session titled "how to maximize your retirement benefits" and his was about coordinating pension, social security, and 403b plan "for the best possible retirement". There were only a few vendors this year... couple of credit unions, the university... I don't think I've seen any other 403b vendors come.
  7. This Index Card Says It ALL

    When I opened the AXA account, it was with the idea that I was going to be saving to have something above the pension I was already contributing to. It wasn't a lot because I didn't understand exactly what it meant to contribute to an annuity, and when asked about my "risk aversion" I figured I was so-so. That's how I came up with 60/40. After finding this board and doing more reading about portfolios, etc. I took a look at what some portfolios looked like around the time I'm probably going to retire. I knew that Vanguard has that slide from aggressive to conservative, so I figured I'd just copy/approximate based on what was available from Security Benefit DI funds, and rebalance to copy as necessary.
  8. This Index Card Says It ALL

    THank you, I'm keeping my fingers crossed. I did go more aggressive... went from a 60/40 AA to a 90/10 in mimic of Vanguard's 2045 fund. Ah well... I know the markets eventually go up and I'm not retiring any time soon.
  9. This Index Card Says It ALL

    Oh.. I was in the process of exchanging 403b accounts and it took longer than expected. If the money in the accounts had been transferred last summer when I moved from AXA to Security Benefit, then I would have had a little bit longer with the upward trend in an account with better returns and lower expense ratios and fees. Instead, the money literally transferred the week before the tumble. It'll be a long while yet before I'm ready to retire, so I expect that the market will continue to go up and down... but the down part right now is making me wince.
  10. This Index Card Says It ALL

    I'm just kind of bummed my AXA money didn't transfer till just before this drop. boooo....
  11. Yup! Having to wait for paperwork to be processed by the TPA and then by the provider, and then get replies in the mail... then find time to get the paperwork reprinted and re-sent and wait for processing and then replies... it took longer than I expected. Definitely a learning process. But now I'm all squared away in one 403b provider.
  12. 1. First attempt - opened an account with Security Benefit, stopped contributions to AXA, started contributions to SB. Sent AXA paperwork with TPA paperwork to TPA to be forward to AXA requesting the exchange. Got a letter from AXA saying they needed new account provider signatures on the paperwork. No return of original paperwork. 2. Second attempt - sent AXA paperwork to SB with self-addressed stamped envelope, requested SB signatures so I could send to TPA to forward to AXA. No return of paperwork. SB sent a letter to AXA requesting fund transfer and cc'd me on the correspondence. AXA sent a letter saying no exchange because no TPA signatures. No return of original paperwork. 3. Round 3 - sent AXA paperwork with TPA paperwork with request to foward to SB. Attached all correspondence from SB and AXA to forward to SB. Attached letter requesting SB signatures & forward of all paperwork to AXA. Got a letter from SB stating request was sent to AXA about contract exchange & then a follow up letter asking about the length of time in completing exchange. No communication from AXA, but about a week ago, logging in to AXA online stopped showing contract information. Today, logging in to SB account showed account activity and "carrier to carrier" transfer of funds. Finally done... the whole process started about 5 months ago.
  13. I can sympathise. I opened my account with SB, stopped deductions with AXA and started contributions to SB via our TPA. I incorrectly assumed with the SB account open, sending AXA paperwork with the TPA contract exchange paperwork to the TPA would be enough. -- Nope. Got a letter from AXA saying paperwork was incomplete, they needed the accepting account signatures. So I sent a new round of paperwork to SB asking for signatures and asked them to return all to me so i could return to TPA to forward to AXA. -- Instead, SB kept all the paperwork and sent me a letter saying they mailed AXA the verification of account. Then, I got a letter from AXA saying paperwork was incomplete because of no TPA signatures. Sooo... round 3, send paperwork to TPA, they will foward all to SB, hopefully SB gets it right. AXA"s paperwork specifically states that their forms are the only forms they will accept. I'm so tired of it.
  14. Well just to keep record of things that can go wrong when filling out paperwork.... I apparently missed a section on my contract exchange forms from AXA that I submitted to my TPA. I didn't get back any of the original paperwork (snail mail), just a letter from AXA telling me the paperwork was incomplete a section, and that this is the only paperwork they will accept. All paperwork still has to go through the TPA, who has their own set of paperwork to complete. Boo... so now I'm re completing the paperwork, which will probably take another month to jump through all the hoops. I'm also supposed to attach my contract with my paperwork, and it took me this long to realize that I had all the information I needed to register my AXA account online. I got so used to thinking that I had to go through the AXA rep that opened my contract. I'm surprised and not surprised that he never suggested I check things online. It was so easy to register, and the site is actually really user friendly. Now I can pull up all the information and the latest numbers online, much better than waiting on quarterly reports.
  15. Guaranteed Interest account AXA

    My surrender fees were only applicable to contributions younger than 7 years, although it is different I know, for others.... any chance you can "free corridor" some of the monies out over time?